Sexual Harassment in the Workplace

By definition, sexual harassment is any unwelcome attention of a sexual nature. This could be anything from unwanted flirting that makes you extremely uncomfortable to more serious things such as touching or using a forceful nature in pursuing a sexual act.

The person that is committing this behavior can be anyone from a co-worker, a teacher, a friend, a client or a stranger. The person that the harassment was directed towards may not be the only person affected. Any person that feels offended by a certain behavior can be a victim. The person being harassed can be male or female, just as the offender can be either sex. It does not matter.

There are also several different types of sexual harassment. The first type is known as Power-Player or "quid pro quo" is the legal term. This is when a person that is harassing another promises that person benefits or things in exchange for sexual favors. Another type is groping. Someone who grabs another persons' body parts, such as a womans' chest or butt, is known as a groper.

A third type is a person that tries to form a mentor-like relationship with someone in the attempt of hiding their sexual intentions. This form is used when teachers harass their students.

A serial harasser forms an image so no one would ever believe that they are capable of sexually harassing someone. This type tends to offend a person in private so it is their word against his or hers.

Some of the effects that can result are increased absenteeism from work or school. Someone may lose their job. Some people may be humiliated and gossiped about. Some people may have extreme stress between them and other people in their lives such as spouses or colleagues.

Panic attacks, fatigue, depression, and anxiety are a few of the physical and emotional effects that this situation can have on a person. Some people may feel isolated and alone.

Sexual harassment in the workplace is a very serious thing and it should not be tolerated for any reason. If you feel like you have experienced sexual harassment in your workplace or any place, discuss it with someone. Some people may not be aware that their actions are making you uncomfortable. They need to be made aware that their actions are not appropriate. If they continue these actions, seek help from an authority figure.

Remember no one has the right to make you uncomfortable in the workplace. Stand up for yourself and let the person who is harassing you know that you will not tolerate it and it is not okay.

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